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(EDITOR’S NOTE: This post was originally published on The Frontier at Grace on March 4, 2011.)

Over the past few weeks, Charlie Sheen has been all over the news.

From his reported drunken night in a hotel room to his bizarre interviews on The Today Show and 20/20, you can’t turn on the television without seeing Sheen and his issues.

It’s like a bad car wreck — you can’t turn away.

I’ve heard a lot of speculation on what people should do for Sheen. People have discussed how his family, his friends in Hollywood, and even CBS can help him.

I wonder what advice we would give if we had the opportunity to speak to him.

Not many of us will have the opportunity to speak to Sheen personally, but what about the Charlie Sheens in our personal lives? How do we help friends, co-workers, and family members who are engaging in self-destructive behavior?

It starts with something more simple than giving them advice: we pray for them. We pray for them consistently.

When we look at Sheen’s life and see the disastrous results of his actions, let’s remember to pray for the Charlie Sheens who are close to us. God can turn a bad car wreck into an inspiring recovery.

— Chris Pugh

Welcome to our Wednesday “Ask Beau” post. The purpose of this weekly feature is to provide you, our readers, with biblical responses to questions you have about practical issues that you face.

As always, you may submit questions for future “Ask Beau” posts by contacting us at beau.stanley@gracebrethren.org or viewfromthepugh@yahoo.com or by leaving a comment on this post.

Both before and after I preached last Sunday on how a Christian should relate to the government, a question arose: Was the American Revolution biblically justified? As much as I would like to sidestep this question, it is a fair and legitimate question, especially given that the sermon was delivered one day before Independence Day.

Let’s first admit that those of us who love America are predisposed to answer the question, “Yes.” The question, however, is not, “Do we want the American Revolution to have been biblically justified?” but, “Was the American Revolution biblically justified?” Let me also admit at the outset that I am not extremely well-versed in the history of the Revolutionary War, so I am doubtless unaware of some of the relevant historical context. I also did not experience some of the significant injustices done by the British government, so the issue is not as personal to me as it surely was to some. With these things in mind, let us consider the words of Scripture.

As I expressed in Monday’s post and in Sunday’s sermon, there is a very clear call in the Bible for Christians to submit to the governing authorities (Romans 13:1–6 and following; 1 Peter 2:16–17). The Bible rejects the proposition that a superior’s unjust actions are sufficient cause for a subordinate to disrespect and fail to submit to that superior (1 Peter 2:18–20). Jesus serves as the model here for enduring injustice. When Jesus was unjustly treated, He did not respond with disrespect and resistance, but entrusted Himself to the Father (1 Peter 2:21–23).

The Christian signers of the Declaration of Independence (not all were Christians) may have found support for the document and the subsequent revolution particularly in Romans 13:4: “For government is God’s servant to you for good . . . government is God’s servant, an avenger that brings wrath on the one who does wrong” (HCSB). Some would argue that Paul presents a standard for governmental conduct within Romans 13:1–6. If the government fails to abide by this standard of conduct, it could be suggested, then lack of submission would be permissible and even proper.

I see at least two problems with this argument. First, Paul’s emphasis in Romans 13:1–6 is clearly on submission to governmental authority. He continues to discuss related topics in verses 7 through 10. Paul does speak of at least a portion of the role of government, but in the context, he is explaining God’s purposes in establishing governmental authority, not presenting an acid test by which one can tell if a governmental authority is acting properly. To suggest otherwise is to read more into the text than is present.

Second, I don’t see how we can get around the statement, “There is no authority except from God” (13:1 HCSB). This is as broad a statement about authority as one can make, and it was written to Christians who lived in a government (the Roman Empire) that tolerated and propagated the exposure of infants, emperor worship, unfair taxation, and so on. In other words, if Paul really meant, “Submit to the governing authorities as long as they govern according to godly boundaries and principles,” it’s hard to see how he could have written what he did, especially to the Roman Christians!

The truth is that every government ever instituted has failed to govern according to godly boundaries and principles at one time or another. No government has ever been completely just in its retributive function. Besides this, our own perception of justice, while not arbitrary, is imperfect. I may feel like the government is being unjust in a given instance and the guy three seats away from me in the same church pew may think the government is doing a fine job. If it were OK for us to disrespect and even rebel against the government when we feel it has overstepped its bounds or when it is acting unjustly, Paul’s words in Romans 13 would be virtually meaningless.

I suppose some might seek justification for the American Revolution in Just War Theory, which says that a war is justified if it is waged for a just cause. Augustine (354–430) and Thomas Aquinas (1225–1274) felt that the Bible supported Just War Theory. I think this proposed justification is a stretch in light of Romans 13 and 1 Peter 2. Again, the Bible commands submission to all governmental authorities, not just authorities that act justly (which none fully do).

Another consideration is that submission to the governing authorities is limited in one important sense, which I did not mention in the sermon: Christians should not obey the government when the government directs them to commit overtly sinful acts (Daniel 3:16–18; Acts 5:27–29). I wonder if this consideration was not in the mind of some who took part in the rebellion. Some may have felt that the British government was forcing them to commit sin in some way.

While I am sure that most if not all of those who supported the American Revolution were convinced that they were doing the right thing, I do not think I would have been comfortable participating in the Revolution based on what I know of the Bible and what I know of history. While I hesitate to say dogmatically that the Revolution was biblically unjustified, my sense is that if I had been alive at the time of the Revolution, I would have chosen to remain as neutral as possible, fighting neither for the American forces nor for the Redcoats. This would have put me in league with the early American Brethren, my theological ancestors, so to speak—a group that was ostracized and persecuted for this stance. Thus, I won’t find it surprising if some of you disagree with me, perhaps strongly.

Obviously I have not covered this issue exhaustively. Are there considerations I have missed? What are your thoughts? 

—Beau Stanley

Some guys like to read about leadership. I’ll include myself in that group. If you are one of us, there is certainly no shortage of reading material available. There are new leadership books, old leadership books, new leadership books that build on material presented in old leadership books, and probably some other kinds that I can’t think of.

As I consider my life, I know it is important that I be a good leader at Grace Polaris, but I believe it is equally or even more important that I be a good leader of my family (1 Timothy 3:4). The best leadership book available is the Bible, so it’s not surprising to me when I find good biblical insights about leading my family. Let me share with you one that has been on my mind recently.

I have come to believe that my attitude has a great deal of impact on my leadership ability, particularly on my ability to lead my family. It is easy enough to think of Philippians 4:4 as a verse that is personally applicable: “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” (HCSB). My family needs me to rejoice in the Lord, though, and so does yours.

When we fail to choose to rejoice in Jesus, we lead our families down a path of discouragement, bitterness, and unbelief. On the other hand, when we choose to rejoice in the Lord, we lead our families in a better way—one of hope, faith, and courage.

In what ways have you noticed that your attitude impacts your leadership ability? 

—Beau Stanley

I know God has forgiven me, but there are some things from my past that I still regret.

There was a special education class at my high school attended by a number of kids with some pretty severe mental limitations. Most of the time, I basically ignored these kids. I didn’t go out of my way to make fun of them, but, as disgusted as I now am about this fact, I occasionally teased them behind their backs.

One day a few friends and I were laughing about an unflattering nickname that had been given to one of the more severely disabled kids. Someone in our group wasn’t interested in participating in this “game,” though. I’ll never forget his powerful, wise, and succinct rebuke. Into our jeers he inserted this simple remark: “His name is Lance.”

Lance, who was created in the image of God just as much as I was (Genesis 1:26–27; 9:6; James 3:9), had intrinsic, God-given value. Our “humor” served to dehumanize Lance. The wise interjection reminded us—or me at least—that Lance was a real person with a real name and real dignity.

Like most able-bodied high-school students, I didn’t think much about what it would be like to have a physical or mental disability. I certainly didn’t think much about what it would be like to be the parent of a child with a disability. Now having two children with special needs, I abhor even the careless remarks I have made in the past that dehumanize those humans amongst us who have disabilities. For example, it makes me want to vomit when someone calls a fellow image-bearer a “retard.”

My distaste for this label and others like it does not stem from political correctness. It is a biblical distaste. All humans, regardless of their disabilities, were made in God’s image and retain God’s image.

God has given all people, very young to very old, very healthy to very ill, very able-bodied to very disabled, great value. We all bear God’s image. I hope you’ll join me in celebrating this fact rather than denying it.

— Beau Stanley

(EDITOR’S NOTE: This post was originally published on The Frontier at Grace on March 8, 2011.)

They say that male pattern baldness comes through a man’s mother’s father. “They” apparently didn’t do their fact checking. My maternal grandfather’s hairline seemed pretty solid. Here I am showing an unintended display of patriotism by mimicking our national bird.

It’s hard to say what is more noteworthy in this picture: the fact that I look like I belong in the “before” picture on one of those hair restoration billboards, or that I am working on my car. A friend took this picture the other day as we finished up replacing my front brakes and rotors. Maybe I could do it myself next time. Then again, it’s nice to have someone nearby who can tell you if that horrible popping noise was supposed to occur or if it means that you should go buy stock in AutoZone because you’re going to have to purchase 50% of your nearby store’s inventory.

As we worked through the repairs, Bernie showed me a few things about how an engine works. Amazing! One the one hand, an engine makes a lot of sense. On the other hand, it’s very complicated. Step back and consider the car as a whole, and you’re talking about an incredibly complex machine. Sure, it’s frustrating when cars break down, but I find it almost shocking that they ever work!

As I conveyed my awe about automotive function to my wife after I had returned home, she wisely said, “Just think how much more amazing the human body is!” Right on, my good wife. It is simply staggering to think of the intricacy of the workings of the bodies God has designed for us. Our bodies make our cars look like the Rube Goldberg machine that opened the front gate of Mikey’s house in Goonies. Yes, our bodies decay (which includes male pattern baldness, I might add), but the magnificence of their design clearly shows the work of an intelligent being.

That’s one of the reasons I find it unfair when people accuse those who believe in God of having blind faith. Actually, my faith is not blind at all. Faith, as the Bible says, is “the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen” (Hebrews 11:1 ESV). While I cannot see God Himself, I see clear evidence of God’s design in our world. To use the biblical language, I am assured and convinced that God exists because of the available evidence.

What other evidences of God’s design do you see in our world?

—Beau Stanley

(EDITOR’S NOTE—Photo: Bernie Woller)

I think it may have been in seminary that I first heard someone present the difference between the “cowboy model” of leadership and the “shepherd model” of leadership. Cowboys, of course, lead their herds by driving the cattle from the rear and sides. Shepherds lead their flocks by walking in front of the sheep.

How interesting it was, in light of this week’s discussion in the Frontier Men’s Bible Study of Robert Coleman’s principle of “delegation,” to come across John 10 this morning in my Bible reading. Not only does Jesus refer to Himself as the “good shepherd” (John 10:11,14), he tells us that He “goes on ahead of” His sheep (10:4 NIV). The Good Shepherd, as we would expect, leads from the front.

If we plan on leading as Jesus did, we’re going to have to show people what we are asking of them (see Coleman’s principle of “demonstration” in The Master Plan of Evangelism). We can’t just tell, we need to do as well. If we aren’t willing to get our hands dirty, to be involved in the process, to give as much as we ask, then we might as well be wearing boots, spurs, chaps, and big wide-brimmed hats. This is not to disparage the cowboys amongst us who are reading this post via the one cell tower in Wyoming. Driving cattle is a good idea. Driving people isn’t.

What metaphors have you found helpful or unhelpful to communicate the essence of good leadership?

—Beau Stanley

Punk. Cheat. Liar. LeQuitter. Queen. LeBrat.

These are some of the names that NBA superstar LeBron James has been called in the past year.

Ohio sports fans were excited last night to see the Miami Heat lose the NBA Finals. Many of them have gone as far as to say they hate LeBron.

Although I understand the hard feelings people have about ”LeDecision,” hate is a scary word.

Is it ever OK to hate people?

Jesus answers that question in Matthew 5:43-44 (NLT): “You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you!”

Pray for LeBron? Absolutely!

As guys, we love sports. But we have to remember it’s a game played by real people who really matter to God.

I love the story of Anne Frank. Frank was a Jewish girl who lost her family and her life at the hands of the Nazis.

She had reason to be ticked.

But in her diary, she wrote about her captors, “It’s a wonder I haven’t abandoned all my ideals, they seem so absurd and impractical. Yet I cling to them because I still believe, in spite of everything, that people are good at heart.”

While I disagree with her assessment of the human heart, I applaud her seemingly outrageous forgiveness of her captors.

If Anne Frank can forgive them, I think I can forgive LeBron.

— Chris Pugh

The top article in today’s Columbus Dispatch reports that Terrelle Pryor, star quarterback for the Ohio State Buckeyes, is done with college football. Pryor released this information yesterday in a statement via his attorney. Tim May, the author of the Dispatch article, notes that it is “unclear” whether or not Pryor will be eligible for the upcoming NFL supplemental draft. Pryor’s once-promising future now has a gigantic question mark superimposed on it.

Call me a sentimentalist or a bleeding heart, but when I saw Fred Squillante’s picture of Pryor on the story’s Web page, I felt sad for T.P. This young man has made mistakes that have cost him dearly. One can only hope that he does not follow in Maurice Clarett’s footsteps.

Has Pryor brought this trouble on himself? Sure. But one thing the pastoral ministry has taught me is that if we never loved people who didn’t play at least a part in their own suffering, not many people would “qualify” for our love.

Some have rightly criticized Rob Bell for extolling God’s mercy at the expense of His justice, but many of us as evangelicals have the opposite problem. We love to speak of personal responsibility, justice, and freedom. That’s good. Do we also speak of and exhibit Jesus’ love to those who don’t deserve it, just as we don’t deserve it (Matthew 5:43–47)?

I don’t know what uniform Pryor will be wearing the next time I see him long-stride past some helpless defensive end, but T.P. has bigger fish to fry than football. I sincerely hope he turns to the God who is merciful enough to let anyone who trusts in Jesus as Savior be part of His family.

I hope that those of us who follow Jesus will show His mercy, too.

—Beau Stanley

In lieu of a regular post today, we wanted to thank those who have served and have sacrificed their lives for our country.

(EDITOR’S NOTE—Photo: Chris Pugh)

You can see Beau Stanley’s interview about Harold Camping’s Rapture prediction on WBNS 10 TV here.